Have you ever been engaged in a group conversation and discover that out of all those gathered, you and one other person share something in common? Perhaps a memory, an opinion, even just a smile as you find each other within the group? Remember how amazing that felt? I think, in a nutshell, that incredible feeling of commonality and acceptance exemplifies the power of the #MeToo movement.

By now, you’ve heard of this watershed movement; as the outrage from the Harvey Weinstein sexual abuse allegations scandal grew, the hashtag became a way for individuals, primarily women, to express their shared experiences with sexual harassment and assault. At first, the abundance of seemingly endless #MeToo stories was difficult to bear. It was heart wrenching and infuriating to see that so many women had been victimized, largely by those in power. After a while, however, I started to view things with a different perspective. As the stories grew, it was absolutely empowering to see that a community was being born. A community filled with empathy and courage. And, really, that was the point.

Tarana Burke, the creator of “Me Too” movement, understood that empathy was key in fostering healing and empowerment. She stated, “Survivors who have found healing, or community, or empowerment in these two words should revel in that fact. #MeToo.” (Read more about Ms. Burke here.)

Why is empathy so important? What is empathy? It differs from sympathy. Whereas being sympathetic to a person’s plight implies feeling sad for them about what they’re going through, empathy literally means putting yourself in someone’s shoes and actually feeling their pain. Not an easy thing to do. And yet in the context of the #MeToo movement, this is what is happening, and that’s why empathy is important. The overflow of commonality is allowing individuals to share each other’s emotions–and to want to lift each other up in empowerment. Even if a person can’t specifically relate to the pain and horror of abuse, to even recognize that healing is taking place is a pretty incredible feeling. You simply want the best for others.

Related to the #MeToo movement is the Time’s Up initiative, which was founded by several women in the entertainment industry in a similar effort to support victims of harassment. A significant example of the movement was the call for women in attendance at the recent 75th Golden Globes to wear all black as a rallying cry of encouragement. It was a powerful image to see.


Let us continue to encourage, empower, and empathize. Even if it’s on a smaller scale than a movement, even if it’s the woman or friend right next to you, it still means everything.

Thanks for reading! What do you find empowering as a woman? Share your thoughts on the #MeToo movement in the comments below!

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Shirley Davis is a Ghanaian-American fictionista, blogger, and natural hair enthusiast who pretends not to be competitive when playing board games. You can find her on Instagram (@frowriter), Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/MondayGrrl), and Twitter (@shebeingme).
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